I found the following on Captain Ranty's Blog. It's called 'Unbound, Released, Free.'
Have a look and listen carefully to what is said.
I ran this video a while back.
You should watch the whole thing for context but the fun starts at around 5 minutes and the jaw-dropper, the statement that finally convinced me that what I am doing is right, comes at around the 7 minute point.
Take a look. Be amazed at the pure simplicity of it all.
Those of you that don't get it didn't pay attention. Watch it until you do.
You are unbound. You are released. You are free.
In point of fact, you were never shackled in the first place.
You just assumed you were.